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However, my partner’s other adult married child says that he isn’t ready to meet me, and doesn’t know when he will be ready.

Suddenly the bereaved child can feel as if they are losing their father to a new family.

Of course, we are speculating here: without asking the parties involved, then we will only assume and never really know.

“Ready” as you can see, can mean many different things. We must ask these children, “What is it that you are not ready for?

” In order for communication to flow freely and for the relationships to be healthy, we simply need to begin the conversation, “What does it mean to be ‘ready?

Those issues that impact the grief process for the parent do not impact the children.

This is critical to remember; because each relationship is different, each period of mourning will be different as well.

Dating in Midlife: Do you need your Children’s Approval?

Note: Both of the questions were posed by women dating widowers.

I have expressed how hurt this makes me feel to my partner. Should my partner continue to keep me from attending his family events where everyone else will be present at, just because one of his married children ‘isn’t ready yet”?

Another family event is coming up soon, and I have already been told by my partner that he will not ruin his relationship with his adult married child. I understood this better a year ago as I had not met everyone yet at that time, but now one year later and I have met everyone, and they have been more than accepting of us together as a couple. I feel he is not being sensitive to my feelings regarding this. Thank you What stands out here is the emphasis on the word “ready”.

Their mom passed 15 months ago and I am dating the father 7 months.

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